To my sweet boys, Pay attention. Watch how he treats me. See how he looks at me. Listen to how he speaks to me. Take note of how gently he touches me. Remember how he smiles, and laughs, and prays, and cries with me. He’s doing this right. He’s loving me like I want you to love. He’s showing you, so pay attention. You know what he’s really doing? He’s making the effort. It doesn’t have to be fancy or expensive or elaborate. It needs to be thoughtful…